I've been saying to myself that living a good life means dialing back on all that online stuff. And yeah, that's still true. I’m not a fan of living my life on the internet. I don’t think you have to show off your growth for it to count, and I don’t think being constantly seen … Continue reading Being Visible Without Losing Yourself
“This is the Bahasa Indonesia version of "Settled Is Not the Same as Finished", written for Indonesian readers.” Dalam perjalanan parenting saya, ada satu prinsip yang terus saya pelajari dan dalami: untuk membentuk anak yang baik, tangguh, dan selaras dengan zamannya, orang tua perlu terus bertumbuh membentuk versi terbaik dirinya. Dan di titik inilah banyak … Continue reading Beres bukan Berarti Selesai
In our parenting journey, there is one principle worth holding onto: if we want to raise children who are kind, resilient, and able to live well in their time, parents need to keep growing into better versions of themselves. Not because we are expected to be perfect, but because growth cannot be forced. It spreads … Continue reading Settled is Not the Same as Finished
I had this particular thought flooding my mind recently. Probably, it came from observations, since my middle name is "observer". Yes, I love to observe people. It's not that I want to judge them (hell nah), but as for me, human endlessly interesting. We can learn a lot from each individual. Whether it's good or … Continue reading Not Impressive. Just Good.
Time passed, but the moment didn’t.The last message I sent was simple. Not dramatic. Not confrontational. Just honest. I remember keeping my phone close, not because I needed a reply, but because I needed to know where I stood with them. When the typing bubble never appeared, I told myself they were busy. Then I … Continue reading The Discipline of Moving On
