I've been saying to myself that living a good life means dialing back on all that online stuff. And yeah, that's still true. I’m not a fan of living my life on the internet. I don’t think you have to show off your growth for it to count, and I don’t think being constantly seen … Continue reading Being Visible Without Losing Yourself
I had this particular thought flooding my mind recently. Probably, it came from observations, since my middle name is "observer". Yes, I love to observe people. It's not that I want to judge them (hell nah), but as for me, human endlessly interesting. We can learn a lot from each individual. Whether it's good or … Continue reading Not Impressive. Just Good.
There's a moment in The Devils Wear Prada that always stays with me. That movie was when I'm a grew up, but it still lingers until now. Andy is standing in Paris. She looks composed now. Sharp. Capable. She's no longer the girl who didn't fit. She's earned her place. And yet, something in her … Continue reading Who Are You Still Being Loyal To?
Happy New Year. Not the loud, resolution-heavy kind. Just the quiet kind, the one that asks us to notice before we rush forward. I’ve never been good at New Year’s resolutions. Not because I don’t believe in change, but because I don’t believe change needs permission from a calendar. If we truly want to live … Continue reading The Chosen Life (Not Just the One We Live)
I once watched someone get misunderstood in the most ordinary way. No confrontation. No raised voices. Just a comment that landed differently than intended. Nothing happened on the surface. But if you looked closely, you could see the familiar moment arrive, that tiny pause where a person usually decides whether to explain themselves, correct the … Continue reading The Quiet Version of Self-Worth
