Yes, I know that is a VERY STRONG word. As manipulation is the act of influencing or controlling someone to get what we want, it could be good or bad. I don't want to talk about the bad one, as it will bring only harm to our lives, that is not the way a good … Continue reading The Art of Manipulation
A months ago, I have an issue that I must solves immediately. At that times, I feel I can't solve it optimum. It seems that, I'm facing the dead end. I try to recall all the possible answers but still, I can't find the best solutions. Hate to say it, but give up maybe is … Continue reading The Art of Doing Nothing
Recently, I'm facing this kind of situation which "force" me to make a solid decision. And I'm happy with my decision. As for me, I believe, there is no right and wrong in every decision that we make, but what's right for me is after I made the decision I do feel happy, relieved and … Continue reading Silent is A Superpower
Here's the ugly truth, most people don't listen. Why? Because most peoples loveeeeeees talking about themselves. That's so natural. It feels rewarding. When we talking about ourselves, our brain release dopamine, which known as a hormone which makes us feels good, just like eating something that we're craving for or winning something. Also, it's a … Continue reading Road to be a Good Listener
“Do you understand what I've said before?” my husband ask me, and I said “Yeah I guess. It’s bla bla bla..” And then he said, “You are not listened me well, you don’t get the point” and he seems looks little bit annoyed to see me not pay attention very well to what he said before. … Continue reading The Power of Listening
