I just left Desi & Arif's (pseudonym) apartment. It was raining a little, not dramatically, just that soft, cold kind of drizzle that feels like it’s trying to match the mood. And I can't stop replaying it. The plate. It started with a plate. I sat there, third-wheeling a conversation I wasn’t invited into. And … Continue reading The Secrets Behind Lasting Relationships Revealed! (Part 1)
Category: relationships
A Sign of a Happy Relationship: Playful Teasing!
In a Coffee Shop, Somewhere in Jakarta. 14.35 pm Sit next to me, there's a beautiful couple over there. Based on their appearance, they kinda look like me, probably in their 40s. I don't have the intention or whatsoever to eavesdrop, but since I'm in "zen" mode, basically just chilling, my ears are quite sensitive … Continue reading A Sign of a Happy Relationship: Playful Teasing!
When “Nothing” is Everything
What's the sign of a happy, long-lasting relationship? Honestly, I'm not an expert on relationships, so I can't say for sure. I could totally Google it and find some credible sources out there, and write it here, but that might be a bit much, right? Anyway, I've got my take on it, and I've noticed … Continue reading When “Nothing” is Everything
Small Gestures, Powerful Impact
"Sir, I'm supposed to order a Cappuccino, but I turned out to say it's an Americano. I'm sorry, I'm the one who's making a mistake when ordering it. It's not on you. Could you please make it a cappuccino? I'm totally okay with the additional cost. Thank you so much." Smiled at him. And then, … Continue reading Small Gestures, Powerful Impact
Sometimes, ‘Brave because you’re right’ is not right
Our humble Hollywood actor, Keanu Reeves, once said: "I’m at the stage in my life where I keep myself out of arguments. Even if you tell me 1+1=5. You’re absolutely correct, enjoy." Woahhh, I love this kind of mentality. It's like someone who's already finished with himself. No need to prove anything, any more or … Continue reading Sometimes, ‘Brave because you’re right’ is not right





