My phone rang. It was my best friend's name on the screen. I'm not the kind of person who always picks up someone else's call if it's not essential for me, but I decided to pick it up, since I know it's usually important if she made a call, and she is an important person … Continue reading What Do Friends Really Need: Listening or Advice?
Our humble Hollywood actor, Keanu Reeves, once said: "I’m at the stage in my life where I keep myself out of arguments. Even if you tell me 1+1=5. You’re absolutely correct, enjoy." Woahhh, I love this kind of mentality. It's like someone who's already finished with himself. No need to prove anything, any more or … Continue reading Sometimes, ‘Brave because you’re right’ is not right
Recently, I'm facing this kind of situation which "force" me to make a solid decision. And I'm happy with my decision. As for me, I believe, there is no right and wrong in every decision that we make, but what's right for me is after I made the decision I do feel happy, relieved and … Continue reading Silent is A Superpower
Here's the ugly truth, most people don't listen. Why? Because most peoples loveeeeeees talking about themselves. That's so natural. It feels rewarding. When we talking about ourselves, our brain release dopamine, which known as a hormone which makes us feels good, just like eating something that we're craving for or winning something. Also, it's a … Continue reading Road to be a Good Listener
“Do you understand what I've said before?” my husband ask me, and I said “Yeah I guess. It’s bla bla bla..” And then he said, “You are not listened me well, you don’t get the point” and he seems looks little bit annoyed to see me not pay attention very well to what he said before. … Continue reading The Power of Listening
