There's a moment in The Devils Wear Prada that always stays with me. That movie was when I'm a grew up, but it still lingers until now. Andy is standing in Paris. She looks composed now. Sharp. Capable. She's no longer the girl who didn't fit. She's earned her place. And yet, something in her … Continue reading Who Are You Still Being Loyal To?
Happy New Year. Not the loud, resolution-heavy kind. Just the quiet kind, the one that asks us to notice before we rush forward. I’ve never been good at New Year’s resolutions. Not because I don’t believe in change, but because I don’t believe change needs permission from a calendar. If we truly want to live … Continue reading The Chosen Life (Not Just the One We Live)
I once watched someone get misunderstood in the most ordinary way. No confrontation. No raised voices. Just a comment that landed differently than intended. Nothing happened on the surface. But if you looked closely, you could see the familiar moment arrive, that tiny pause where a person usually decides whether to explain themselves, correct the … Continue reading The Quiet Version of Self-Worth
I have this one bad experience, it happened a long time ago. I didn't want to even think about it, because it felt ...hurt. It always brought a wound in my chest. I still remembered all the details, and also my feeling at that moment and the years after. If I could turn back the … Continue reading Trauma Doesn’t Exist!
