Tag: life
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The Messy Middle of Becoming Real
It was a perfect morning to stroll around the neighborhood like I used to. Wind blows softly, the sun is perfectly bright, but not too bright, that it burns. It’s just shining perfectly. Of course, it makes me feel energetic and ready to conquer what life brings me to the table! Sorry, I’ve been too…
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Learning to See Each Other Clearly
A few days ago, my children had another fight. At first, it felt really small, just another mix-up like tons of others. But this time, it didn’t get sorted out in a day. They stayed away from each other. The usual chatting just stopped. There was some awkward vibe hanging in the air between them.…
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Beres bukan Berarti Selesai
“This is the Bahasa Indonesia version of “Settled Is Not the Same as Finished”, written for Indonesian readers.” Dalam perjalanan parenting saya, ada satu prinsip yang terus saya pelajari dan dalami: untuk membentuk anak yang baik, tangguh, dan selaras dengan zamannya, orang tua perlu terus bertumbuh membentuk versi terbaik dirinya. Dan di titik inilah banyak…
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Who Are You Still Being Loyal To?
There’s a moment in The Devils Wear Prada that always stays with me. That movie was when I’m a grew up, but it still lingers until now. Andy is standing in Paris. She looks composed now. Sharp. Capable. She’s no longer the girl who didn’t fit. She’s earned her place. And yet, something in her…
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The Chosen Life (Not Just the One We Live)
Happy New Year. Not the loud, resolution-heavy kind. Just the quiet kind, the one that asks us to notice before we rush forward. I’ve never been good at New Year’s resolutions. Not because I don’t believe in change, but because I don’t believe change needs permission from a calendar. If we truly want to live…
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