In my previous post, we unpacked the idea that some couples argue often and are still happy together, because of what? That's my friends, something we have to figure out. Well, consider this the sequel. Because the more I think about it, the more I realize: there’s a certain charm to their chaos. So, the … Continue reading The Secrets Behind Lasting Relationships Revealed! (Part 2)
I just left Desi & Arif's (pseudonym) apartment. It was raining a little, not dramatically, just that soft, cold kind of drizzle that feels like it’s trying to match the mood. And I can't stop replaying it. The plate. It started with a plate. I sat there, third-wheeling a conversation I wasn’t invited into. And … Continue reading The Secrets Behind Lasting Relationships Revealed! (Part 1)
In a Coffee Shop, Somewhere in Jakarta. 14.35 pm Sit next to me, there's a beautiful couple over there. Based on their appearance, they kinda look like me, probably in their 40s. I don't have the intention or whatsoever to eavesdrop, but since I'm in "zen" mode, basically just chilling, my ears are quite sensitive … Continue reading A Sign of a Happy Relationship: Playful Teasing!
What's the sign of a happy, long-lasting relationship? Honestly, I'm not an expert on relationships, so I can't say for sure. I could totally Google it and find some credible sources out there, and write it here, but that might be a bit much, right? Anyway, I've got my take on it, and I've noticed … Continue reading When “Nothing” is Everything
Dear friends, sorry for taking so long (as if you were waiting for it, LOL). In fact, I'm still away from home, having this called-out holiday, but I can't help to continue our session before, about anger management. I guess this is some kind of my coping mechanism for handling my kids every day during … Continue reading Anger Management 2.0 (Part 2)
